willing but unable to help

I'm not big on psychics or a horoscopes, because I believe God is ultimately in control. We as people can make decisions and experience unpleasant things as a result of living in a sinful world. But this isn't because God out to get us , things just happen sometimes. That being said, I am the type of person that if I sense one of my friends is experiencing a difficult time. I wanna be available for them so they know that I'm supportive of them. When friendships are strained this becomes stressful for me because I feel like this person doesn't realize how much of a support system they have. and in a sense they're not tapping into all their resources. I was trying to get an idea for a blog entry today, and so I read this friend's blog entry, and it was the weirdest thing I had ever read. I want to call I want to ask what's wrong, I want to be a good friend but that's not possible right now. I know I'm not the only person people can go to for help,but but my feeling is before you print it on a blog where everyone can read it wouldn't you turn to a friend first? Maybe this person posted on the blog to get a reaction from people. I certainly don't do that because the only person who reads, this is my best friend me (LOL just kidding. Just kidding) I just wish I could be the friend to some people that I feel like God wants me to be in their lives. I'll just keep praying

peace